Thursday, May 12, 2011

About the author of this blog...

Two, 2011

A long while back Anna of WSAKE asked me to write down seven things about myself. I'm not very good with such exercises, so I put the request aside to see if the list of seven would come to me naturally. Today it did.
1. Drawing connections between seemingly disparate things helps me understand the world around me. Yesterday I saw connections between the way Chris wants to run his business and Stanley Kunitz discussing poetry and gardening in The Wild Braid and also in the 100th episode (Paris) of Anthony Bourdain's No Reservations. I read Chris that special part in The Wild Braid and we watched Bourdain's 100th episode together. He got it. I guess this is why we are married.

2. I was once very into worm composting. I wrote a short book about my experience and shared it on a blog. I still need to add the last chapter.
update
05/13/2011 I really hated typing that last chapter bit, so I visited the blog to update things. I realized there was also a brief closing chapter that needed to be completed. I am proud to report done & done.


3. I miss the television show Northern Exposure and the young pre-Sex and the City John Corbett.

4. The traits I value most in people are empathy, a good sense of humor, confidence, and curiosity.

5. I tasted my very first fresh kumquat yesterday. My produce guy warned me. He told me I had to like sour if I wanted to just pop the whole thing into my mouth. I did it anyway and found them much more complex than a simple sour. Yes, there is sour, but there is also sweetness in the rind, and a hint of bitter. I talked Chris into trying his first too. Thanks, Margie.

6. My first job was in a one-hour photo shop in a very small town near the beautiful Lake Powell. I only lived there for one semester. My job was part of a work-study program at school. My evaluation was gleaming beside the bit about my need for improvement in taking constructive criticism. I was sixteen.

7. When I was a little girl and we hosted family gatherings in our home, I would always hang out with my dad and my uncles in the living room. I liked laughing, playing chess, and taking small sips from my dad's frosty mug of beer. I found the women in the kitchen prepping food and gossiping terribly boring. The men seemed to have all of the fun. I claimed I'd marry my father or no one. Now I am married to someone else, still like beer, love cooking, and sometimes gossip in the kitchen. I need to buy a chess set.
I won't tag anyone, but if you'd like to play along and note your seven, please do so in the comments or place a link in the comments to your blog post.

38 comments:

  1. We're currently watching the entire Northern Exposure series (thanks Netflix).

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  2. Tracy, Were we sisters in a former life ; )

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  3. Your seven things are very you, like the glimpses of background that flicker through unresolved in the best fiction, enrichening rather than purporting to explain.

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  4. Brid, What an eloquent comment. I definitely want your review on my first book jacket.

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  5. Your seven things are as charming and delicious as your writing and I wish you lived just around the corner so we could meet for afternoon tea. You've brought back memories of watching Northern Exposure as a teenager when it was on very late during the week and I had a TV in my room but had to keep the volume low in case my parents found out I wasn't asleep.

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  6. Northern Exposure John Corbett was so dreamy. While my friends were going nuts for Danny, Donny, John, Joe and Jordan, I was all about Chris. Once when I was twelve, my mom and I walked past him sitting against a building people watching at Pike Place Market. He smiled at me. I have never blushed so deeply, my head was in the clouds for weeks.

    Love the post Denise. :)

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  7. I very much enjoyed reading your seven things! Thank you for sharing :-)

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  8. So many good things listed here. I love getting to know more about you and what a lovely way to put each thing into story form. The best way, indeed.

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  9. I never made the Northern Exposure connection before. Did you marry me just because my name is Chris?

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  10. What fun. I have never watched No Reservations. I have however had a kumquat. I have a bunch that I candied in a jar in my refrigerator, waiting to turn into financiers or a tart or something of the sort....

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  11. I love learning more about you. Thanks for sharing.

    <a href="http://www.cookingathome-michele.blogspot.com/2010/11/stylish.html"

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  12. I really like 'your seven' :-) And I'm a little curious; what's a kumquat?

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  13. i loved northern exposure - it was so wonderfully written. quirky without being so "aware" that it was so off the wall. too many shows now show the dark side of that quirky nature of humans.

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  14. Hi Denise--I read this earlier, and, like you, have never done well responding to these kind of exercises--even though they can be fun. Not wanting to clog up your comments, here are 3:

    1. My extreme picky-eating ways persisted throughout childhood until my late teens. Then, it all changed. I embraced the resisted, and the one extreme transformed into the other. Cooking well became my talent. I call it the Law of Reversed Effort

    2. When I was 17, (1971) I had the most remarkable poetry teacher. A poet himself, (named David Verble--great name, eh?) and very of-the-moment, he introduced us to the work of Robert Bly, Charles Simic, David Ignatow, Wendell Berry, William Stafford, Mark Strand, W.S.Merwin. He took a small group of us to a Bly poetry reading and we got to hang out in Bly's hotel room afterwards, listening to the poets speak about words and images and the inner man and poetry that leaps. The experience informs everything that I love about poetry and writing today.

    3. I love to travel,even for extended periods, and yet I have lived in the same neighborhood (albeit in different homes) my entire adult life. I love the exotic, and yet I am such a homebody. I can sit in the sanctuary of my backyard and pretend that I am in the courtyard of a home in a Provencal town.

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  15. I enjoyed reading about you - I loved Northern Exposure too.

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  16. I also once raised worms. A box filled with red wrigglers was a birthday gift, and I kept them for years, eventually moving them to my compost bin. When I moved to Seattle, I gave my parents my compost bin, complete with descendants of those birthday worms. I like that thought, of creating a home for generations of worms.

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  17. that was a wonderful list to read, I totally empathise with point 1.

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  18. nice list! reading it was so much fun! and godd idea to tag no one but invite everybody - hopefully a lot of people want to play, too!

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  19. I totally miss Northern Exposure!!

    Loved learning a bit more about you here. xo

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  20. I love reading your list of seven. I love that kumquats made the cut. I have "chess set" on a list here at home. (I will prove this in an upcoming blog post!) Men, beer, all of that. Agreed. All of it, much appreciated.

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    Tracy said...

    We're currently watching the entire Northern Exposure series (thanks Netflix).

    May 12, 2011 8:16 AM

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    Denise | Chez Danisse said...

    Tracy, Were we sisters in a former life ; )

    May 12, 2011 8:24 AM

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    Bríd said...

    Your seven things are very you, like the glimpses of background that flicker through unresolved in the best fiction, enrichening rather than purporting to explain.

    May 12, 2011 8:28 AM

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    Denise | Chez Danisse said...

    Brid, What an eloquent comment. I definitely want your review on my first book jacket.

    May 12, 2011 8:34 AM

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    Emily Vanessa said...

    Your seven things are as charming and delicious as your writing and I wish you lived just around the corner so we could meet for afternoon tea. You've brought back memories of watching Northern Exposure as a teenager when it was on very late during the week and I had a TV in my room but had to keep the volume low in case my parents found out I wasn't asleep.

    May 12, 2011 9:17 AM

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    Erin said...

    Northern Exposure John Corbett was so dreamy. While my friends were going nuts for Danny, Donny, John, Joe and Jordan, I was all about Chris. Once when I was twelve, my mom and I walked past him sitting against a building people watching at Pike Place Market. He smiled at me. I have never blushed so deeply, my head was in the clouds for weeks.

    Love the post Denise. :)

    May 12, 2011 9:17 AM

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    Anne said...

    I very much enjoyed reading your seven things! Thank you for sharing :-)

    May 12, 2011 9:22 AM

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    Alexandria said...

    So many good things listed here. I love getting to know more about you and what a lovely way to put each thing into story form. The best way, indeed.

    May 12, 2011 9:26 AM

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    Christopher said...

    I never made the Northern Exposure connection before. Did you marry me just because my name is Chris?

    May 12, 2011 9:55 AM

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  30. A bit messy, but I believe I've restored what Blogger lost. I cannot believe how many of you know Northern Exposure! You are my people ;)

    Joyti, I really like No Reservations. His reputation is of a bad boy, but he's actually quite thoughtful. A kumquat tart, nice.

    Michele, Oh no, it seems this post is really belated!

    Ida, A kumquat definition via NPR: http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=18828304

    Char, I agree. I don't mind a little dark, but not all dark all the time.

    nancy, I love your Law of Reversed Effort. Wonderful poetry story. Those few teachers that changed our world, they deserve to be treasured. Number three is a special talent and I believe it will keep you young for a very long time.

    RW, Cheers to Northern Exposure!

    Rachael, I really miss those worms and the entire process... I like that you know what I'm talking about. I know very few who do.

    hila, Thank you, comforting to know.

    WSAKE, It would be fun, but it seems most people are shy and/or busy... I know it can be a challenge.

    Lecia, It was a special show, tough to replicate.

    Shae, I'm glad you understand my view on kumquats and men and beer and chess. I was hoping someone might.

    Emily Vanessa, Oh yes, I'd love to get together for tea with you. I like that Northern Exposure was your late-night secret.

    Erin, If I'd seen him back then AND seen him smile at me, well, I might have fainted right there, on the spot. Lucky you.

    Anne, Thank you.

    Alexandria, Thank you. I always enjoy reading and writing in story form.

    Christopher, I've never thought about it before. This just might have been a factor! ;)

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  31. My husband has suddenly developed a serious interest in vermiculture. We have a big plastic bin sitting in our basement full of worms and damp shredded paper. I'm pretty sure that I discovered your blog because of your worm book. I'll have to remind him the about book... I had forgotten. What a lucky find- discovering your book, blog, and you.

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  32. It's always a pleasure learning more about you...glad you decided to make the list!

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  33. You sound like a good mix. I enjoyed these little moments about you - x

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  34. How beautifully you write and illustrate your posts, I feel more serene just browsing through your archives, lovely.

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  35. and I forgot to say, Northern Exposure, I miss it too.

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  36. Beth, I hope it all works out and you are able to harvest some nice compost.

    Rachel, Thank you.

    Janis, A good mix. I like that.

    Poshyarns, Thank you. Another Northern Exposure fan. Who knew there were so many.

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  37. beautifully written!!!
    I'll try to do the same for myself :)

    and I too miss Northern Exposure!!!

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  38. M., Thanks. I'd love to see you do the same.

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